Where has my desire for sex gone?

You love your partner. But sex feels like something you have to check off the to-do list, rather than something you want.

Maybe you don't feel sexy anymore. Perhaps you dread the moment your partner initiates sex, feel guilty for saying no, or wonder where the woman you used to be has gone.

And maybe, underneath it all, you miss feeling connected to yourself.

I want you to know something very important: you are not broken.

Your erotic energy is one of your superpowers.

And at times in our lives, it can feel like it's gone AWOL.

Whether you're navigating postpartum, perimenopause, the menopause portal, or another life event that has left your desire feeling quiet, there may be many reasons you're experiencing things differently.

Your libido, creativity and sensuality are deeply connected. And there are ways to begin exploring and nourishing your erotic energy — with love, curiosity and devotion, rather than criticism or pathologising.

This isn't about forcing yourself to want sex, or trying to become the woman you think you should be.

It's about beginning to understand your desire, reconnect with your body, and discover what pleasure and sensuality could look like for you now.

What you'll explore in this free masterclass

Understanding your desire

Explore what supports and suppresses libido, the different types of desire, and the dual control model — helping you understand why desire can change throughout your life.

Reconnecting with your body

Experience an embodiment practice to arrive in your body and open receptivity, alongside sensual dance and movement.

Nourishing your erotic energy

Explore vitality, Eros, our relationship with nature, and the ways desire can show up in relationships.

Continuing your exploration

Discover ways to continue deepening your relationship with your body, sensuality and desire.